This is the first time my little article got published on the page of Your Say Letters of Young Post, South China Morning Post. In fact, I like the star letter version more than my original version.
In the past, I mainly wrote poems for Poet’s Corner of Young Post.
It’s a pity that Young Post does not have the page Poet’s Corner this school year.
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13th September 2009
The original version I wrote:
“Express Your Love To VIP”
Recently I find that my dear sister Sharon needs a card holder and a file so I intend to buy the things she needed. I will not present them as her next birthday gifts as it will be too long time from now.
If you really care about a person, you should be able to know her daily need. Then you can do something to help her or give her some useful little gifts. It is no need to wait till her birthday to send gifts.
In general, Chinese are too reserved to express their love and feelings. Don’t think that your VIP (very important person) has already known your love for her. There is the need to show your love for your VIP. Don’t just say loving her by word of mouth. You should practically do something for your VIP. It’s time to take action and show your care to your parents, siblings or friends.
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Chosen as Star Letter and posted on 24th September 2009 Your Say Letters‧Young Post‧South China Morning Post
Star Letter version published:
“Show Loved Ones That You Care”
I recently found out that my sister really needs a card holder and a file. So I intend to buy them for her without waiting for her next birthday because it would be too late then.
If you really care about a person, you should know what they want and need. It is not necessary to wait until someone’s birthday to send them presents.
In general, the Chinese don’t openly express their love and feelings for others. If there’s a VIP (very important person) in your life, show that you care about them and treat them with respect. If you see something you know they’d like, buy it for them. If you know they need help with something, help them.
Actions speak louder than words. It’s time to take action and show that you care about your parents, siblings and friends.
“From The Editor”
Thank you for your letter, Sally. These days, we all tend to be a little materialistic. We expect exciting gifts at birthdays and Christmas, and if our friends and family don’t perform to our expectations, we are often annoyed.
But gifts should not be proof of how much money we have. They should only be proof of how we feel about a loved one.
And like you said, we should not save gifts for “special occasions”. In fact, a gift can be a lot more meaningful if we buy it just because we see something someone would like.
But even more important than physical gifts are the things we do for our loved ones, and even for strangers. Whether it’s small things like holding the door open for someone or giving up your seat on the MTR or someone in need, or bigger things like helping a friend finish a project or offering to cook dinner for your parents, doing things for other people makes their lives a little bit better.
But what’s even cooler about being thoughtful is that you feel better afterwards. What are you waiting for?
Karly, Sub-editor
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I agree that gift is only one of the ways to express love and care. The most important thing is your sincere love and care for your VIP but not the value of the gift.
For parents, I think the best gifts would be children’s self-made little cards and keeping a good relationship with their children.
25-9-2009
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P.S. 本篇日記已獲選為Sanrio Town每週心水網誌(28-9-2009)。
Sanrio Town每週心水網誌
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雖然我每天用紙筆寫日記的習慣已維持了八年半,但只是個寫網上日誌的新手而已。對於能獲選為Sanrio Town每週心水網誌,真的令我受寵若驚且很受鼓舞,謝謝支持和誇獎。
我希望當一個像<<魔女宅急便>>魔女琪琪的善良魔女(即懂魔法的女子,並非邪惡的女巫),我把日常生活視作魔女的修行,也是心靈成長的過程。
28-9-2009