Some this kind of piece of fable story: Some man, in has sought for a perfect woman, down to at he 70 year-old time, he did not have the marriage. Some people ask him: “you have sought for several dozens years, looked everywhere in the world many places, to link a perfect woman not to meet?”That man said very sadly: “once, I have bumped into a perfect woman.”That person also asked: “then why you haven’t married with her?”That man said: “does not have the means that she is also seeking for a perfect man.” , in the story heroes and heroines are pursuing one kind of sincere feeling truehearted nature perfect without a doubt, they hope for in the life bump into one perfect image entirely alike person who describes with the heart, but they have not met finally. In fact, what they pay great attention is that kind of pursue process, but has neglected the result which everybody pay attention. They longed for that and continues fiery the instantaneous eruption’s fervor forever, and, to not abandoned does not accompany in own life, but, love, not only the initial romantic mood, love passes through on the contrary more years will be one kind of romantic from now on that kind have light and the solid life really. That kind of life, has like a rill in the life perpetual flow average, mighty waves not startled, gentle and indifferent cleanses a trickle rivulet in yours life perpetual flow, is moistening your life frequently. But will not be difficult situation from now on Xiao Suohe loses. , in the world absolute perfect, in the world also has not had actually the absolute flaw, but in love, we wild hope opposite party desirably can give us frequently to be many, but not was thinking how to give for opposite party. In the life, we should feel grateful first give, for instance shows loving concern, for instance tolerant, for instance the understanding, for instance encourages ……Thus, when we decided loves his time, only will then obtain his same conferment. too pursues perfectly, in fact has died of suffocation path love, exactly said that is leads to marital that leafed door, in fact in the world a person has not been perfect, is ambitious possibly unintentionally, has a mind the possibility is incapable, powerful possibly does not have the money, the rich possibility is heartless, feels emotion possibly not likes, having love not having the good fortune possibly, is predestined friends possibly does not have the share, has the share together to be possibly unable to be together. In brief, has the weather not to benefit, has nobody which benefits and, some people and lacks other things, had like this also had such. Therefore this world impossible is radically perfect. only so, in love, we must attempt are making one to understand that loves with the human who loves, also only then has attempted, only will then understand that love will not be perfect, has like this or such shortcoming, but will not be incomplete, will have some things is finally we need and the appreciation. Needs to attempt is making one to understand offer the human, possible to give others, cares about others. the love, does not pursue perfectly, what it wants is one carefree mood; One kind of joyful feeling; One kind of unique freedom; One indifferent manner.
2 月 28th, 2008
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