Have any of your parents ever made you super upset?? Who hasn’t!!!? [sighs].
Long story short. My mother left myself and younger brother and sister. I was only 11 when this happened. Then my parents actually divorced when I was 15. All this time even now that I am 20 years old, I had to figure out many things on my own. I have fell flat many times on my face and got back up. Now that I am trying to make my own life [like I have been all this time], my mother wants to put her 2 cents every time! Especially, in my personal relationships.
Just now, my mother found out I have been sleeping over at my boyfriend’s house every now and then. Its only been twice! She wanted to call me up acting like I’m a damn child and tell me what’s right and what’s wrong. I mean I’m 20 I’ve made my share of mistakes and know how to take care of myself. All those years she wasn’t there for me, now she wants to be my mother that should have been way back when. The times when a young growing little girl needed her mother to teach her the things to look out for in life. That’s when she should have been my mother.
Always,
Panda




May 1st, 2008 at 10:47 am
I know that maybe she doesn’t have a right to begin lecturing you now but maybe she just wanted to show her concern?
I hope you feel better! I bet ya your boyfriend’s trying to make you feel better already!