Scary BreastFeeding Room
Thursday, October 23rd, 2008I’m sorry, I have no photos to share with you. I remembered this incident when Mi’an left a comment on my post about her experience at Breastfeeding room in Rustan’s Shangrila Mall.
Let me start….
I was going to have my pedicure in one of the salons at Market!Market! but I had to wait at least 30-45 minutes so I decided to express the milk out of my breast (I have to say it…pardon me.) to save time! I do remember that Market!Market! has a breastfeeding room which I haven’t been to and so I asked the guard roving around the mall where it was. They gave me directions that it was at the far end at the right. And so, I walked and looked for a sign that would direct me but I don’t see one. The guard forgot to tell me to turn right and walk farther more before you chance upon the room.
And so, I walked. And there it was…the room. The location was not easy to find nor an ideal place to locate it. It was not alongside with the stores (not income generating, that’s why!). It was hidden and no sign at all except for the sign by the Market!Market! entrance and somewhere else (basta not near the location!). I was hesitant to go inside because there were men outside (as if they were drinking or was it siesta time?), at least 4-6 men (some were even wearing camouflage pants which added to my hesitation) surrounding the place and by the door to the breastfeeding room. So, I was kinda peeping into the room whether it was still open to the public. I think they are staff of the Market! Market! office but why are they outside the office at office hours? They were kinda harassing me and was asking what is my business going to the room (They think I just want to sleep?) and those silly questions as if they know a lot about nursing! I told them irritably, I would pump (period). And they were still asking where is the kid and all (Hello?!). At that time, I felt violated because they kept on asking me like they were ridiculing me and they were men! Finally after a few minutes sensing that I was very irritated with them, they get it. There was no kid and I will just be by myself (whee! hahaha). Suddenly,one guy was calling someone inside the room! Someone was actually sleeping there! One of the staff, I guess. Eiwww! What is he doing there? I had no choice but to go there and do what I have to do…express my milk out of me…
I should’ve turn around and find another place to express my milk. I should’ve gone to the pay lounge. I think it would be more comfortable for me. AND I should’ve complained to the Market!Market! office about the behavior of those people (maybe their people! most prob..)! I was kinda scared because the place was at the corner of the mall and you have to go far along before you would be able to reach it so you would really have to SHOUT as in SHOUT!!! It was like going to the restroom except that not much people are traversing the lobby.
From then on, I would not go there anymore…scary…Good thing, nothing happened to moi.














