everyone is in pursuit of a “forever love”.

what other love is eternal besides the love that your parents feel for you?
even siblings who are related by blood might not love one another. and even some might not feel love towards their parents due to some decisions their parents made, or some thing(s) that their parents might have done that they couldnt accept.

as for the relationship between you and your other half…

2 years together might seem to be a long time for some. for others, 2 years is nothing.

well, its true. whats 2 years? if you plan to marry and have kids together, 2 years is seriously nothing. you have a lifetime ahead of you. how do you sustain this relationship to last for a lifetime?

people say, when there’s more contact, the greater and easier the chances of quarreling. thats why they say its different during courtship and during marriage. cause you have to live together, and every decision you make affects the other. like where the TV should be placed. what appliances you should buy. even the colour of the curtains might be a factor of argument.
the longer you are together, the more comfortable you feel with your other half. and the excitement of love might just fade away, leaving you with just the sense of familiarity. you just dont feel right without him/her, however the quickened pace of heartbeat, the sparkle in your eyes and the smile that comes ever so easily when he/she is around you..all these might slowly disappear without you even knowing it after being together for long.

which is why i think being able to fall for each other over and over again is important. both parties need to continue putting in effort in the relationship and continue caring for each other. when you feel the effort the other party makes, you feel that you are still important and this is crucial in a relationship.