Please excuse the length of my blog. You don’t have to read the entire thing unless you are bored and have absolutely nothing else to do.
…but you know, my blog isn’t as important as helping the environment (I’m a tree-hugger, is that so bad?) or the community. Hint-hint, I don’t advise reading my blog since it is very long. It even took me about 30 minutes to write this entire blog.
WELLL, I have this one friend named Phuong. (I seriously hope she doesn’t see this O_O). She’s REALLY starting to bug me. I seriously don’t know when it started, and I wish this stupid thing didn’t start. She just is bothering me…I guess it’s her nature because she’s been bothering others as well even before she met me.
Yesterday, she borrowed my wite-out and STILL hasn’t returned it. I guess that can be put into my blame for not reminding her, but wite-out isn’t the only thing she hasn’t borrowed and returned back.
She also has my math book. She decided to take it home a few months ago, and although I’ve reminded her before, she still hasn’t returned it. I believe the book check is next Thursday, but I need to use MY math book to study for the upcoming final next Tuesday. Why is it that I have to be the one to have the burden of worrying that I’d have to pay for my book If she lost it (when you are in debt, there are restrictions such as NOT GETTING YOUR YEARBOOK which is the most important to me right now), and I have to be the one to lug the book around home and back to school? Hmm, I think I’ve about cleared up the math book incident. There are even more details to that math book incident, but this is already an extremely long post.
It also seems that I have a better music collection on my iPod than she does, and she also likes many of my songs. So on the bus, she’s always asking to borrow it to listen to my better-than-her-songs songs. I’ve gotten to playing games on her iPod because the music just sucks so badly that I need SOMETHING entertaining. Yes, she’s asked me to send her songs (I’m emailing them to her right now), but she’s the one with Limewire. Can’t she just download her own songs? I don’t even have Limewire and I can still expand my music collection with good music. And yes, I admit that I delay sometimes when sending songs because I forget. But what about when I ask her to send me songs? Well, she just doesn’t at all. Okay, once again, SHE has Limewire and I don’t. I only delay songs she wants by ONE DAY but she NEVER sends the songs I want. She can just easily download the songs she wants off of limewire. I’ve tried Limewire - it ain’t that hard, folks.
Another iPod issue is that a few times she sees me listening to my iPod calmly not disturbing anyone (me, of course) she just comes and grabs my iPod. That doesn’t really bother me, but then sometimes she just blasts up the freaking volume. OMFG, WHY THE HECK DOES SHE DO SUCH A STUPID, RUDE THING? Just because she likes the volume loud doesn’t mean I, or others, do.
She also borrows money as well. Since I am trying to be a good friend, I lend money when she needs it for lunch. But she rarely pays back what I and our friends have lended her. And I remind her, or sometimes I just ask for her to buy me something that equals the amount she owed me. But then she insists that she doesn’t owe me anything and she doesn’t have enough money…but I usually see a $5 bill or $10 bill with her. That’s more than enough for BOTH of our lunches. Yes, I’ve stopped lending her money, even if I’ve extended to LYING that I don’t have money to lend. But you know, I’d rather just lie.
She doesn’t even need to borrow sometimes. For example, today she needed a quarter. I didn’t give one to her.
My other friend, Megan, warned me Phuong would be trying to borrow money. She already got noodles and probably even a cookie. But she still wanted ANOTHER cookie.
OH, I’ve just remembered another thing I have a problem with. When she has a water bottle, or any drink for that matter, she just randomly squirts water at you, EVEN IF YOU HAVEN’T DONE A THING TO HER. It gets really annoying. And if you upset her more (it’s so stupid, she gets upset by just someone just saying “PLEASE STOP”) she’ll just keep squirting at you. She’s even dumped some of her water on some other people.
Those are the current things I can think of that just annoy me and others. If you were in my place, you’d see how annoying she is. You probably might be asking “Why are you being so hypocritical? If she annoys you, why don’t you just stop being her friend?” That sounds kind of elementary and although I am only in junior high, I don’t “stop being people’s friends”. I’m sorry, but I don’t know my answer. However, I soon hope she either stops, or god, I’m gonna explode and end up just letting this all out…even if she gets sad.
By the way, I’m not good at confronting people. She’s not as bad as she seems, I think, but there are those moments that would drive anyone crazy.
Oh yes, I bet there’ll be more blog rants about Phuong if she keeps up her personality and style.